A helpless newborn is far from being fully realized person. Our self-awareness emerges soon enough, but only as our large, initially inchoate, brains develop in context.
This has a profound and bewildering consequence. At first, like fish in water, we have no meta-view of our existential predicament. By the time we are old enough and clever enough to ponder who we are, what we are, and where we might be going, we are in medias res; unable to unbootstrap ourselves from a lifetime that is already unfolding.

KIT BLAMEY
American philosopher, English translator of the works of French philosopher, Paul Ricoeur


traditionally teaches that the work opens in the thick of the action. The beginning of the story is not the first point on a linear story line but is better described as the center of a constellation, that refers both forward and backward, drawing upon what has already occurred, and which will be revealed directly or indirectly as the story progresses, and stretching ahead, projecting courses of action onto the future, with unrealized possibilities forming a sort of lateral thickness.
If all starting points are contingent, or contrived by the teller of a story, then what of endings? In her self-referential trace of Ricoeur’s philosophical itinerary entitled From the Ego to the Self, Blamey (1989: 600) concludes that “The end of a story is a function of a point of view. It is where the story stops, this time.”
Blamey, Kathleen. (1989)From the Ego to the Self: A Philosophical Itinerary. In The Philosophy of Paul Ricoeur. (1995) Edited by Lewis Edwin Hahn. The Library of Living Philosophers: Volume XXII. Chicago: Open Court.